How do you business deal near the loss of a pet?
I had to put my cat to sleep two days ago. He was very antediluvian and sick. I miss him terribly and have been crying for olden times two days. What can I do to get through my loss?
Ooh thats really sad :( i have a cat a few years ago who i loved alot and when she died i was terribly upset...
i got a nice photo of her and put it contained by a pretty frame... i dont know hoe but i found it helped...
also... i know you may not want to get another cat so soon...
but really having another one around the house really does sort you feel better :)
maybe in a week or so... have an idea that about it ^-^
dont feel bad around it either... your not 'replacing' your old cat
just making a tentative friend ^-^
you'll still be upset for a while its natural but it will get easier just focus! he had such a lovely life with you :)
hope everything works out ok!
xxxx
You never get over losing him, but you learn to look at the well-mannered memories. I lost my cat of 13 years whom I grew up with and shared everything with 2 years ago. I just lost another one that I spent 19 years near 4 months ago. I still cry a couple of times a month over both of them. I keep a picture of them on my bureau and every night I tell them I love them and miss them. When I start to cry, I try to remember my favorite memory beside them. The crying usually turns into laughter. I actually have some clippings of their fur before they passed which I have under my pillow. Most society think it's odd, but I need to discern close to them since they were such a big part of my life.
you know that amimals are like ethnic group and it is hard loseing them but just talk roughly speaking them and think of the good times you had i los my dog just about a few months ago and it is hard but just think of him
I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you are feeling. My precious Sylvester died contained by February. He died from Pancreatitis. He was only five. You are lucky that you had so copious years with your beloved cat. I still miss my cat so much. It was hard for me to adopt because he was so young. When he first died I cried for a month. I buried him in my courtyard and put down a memorial stone. I visited his spot all the time. I have since gotten two cats and they are wonderful additions, but they are not replacements. You can never replace a pet that you lose. You will other miss your cat but it won't always hurt this much. Just remember him and all the happiness he brought you. I hold pictures of my cat all over the house. You will never forget him, and maybe in time you will grasp another cat. My cats didn't replace Sylvester but they did help my broken heart to heal.
So sorry about your lose. I know how you feel. I just lost my little Pomeranian 2 weeks ago and it still hurts. The single thing that I can say to you is to think of it this passageway, your kitty is no longer suffering and he lived a long happy life. I know you miss him, but you will always enjoy your memories. Take care.
Well whether he was old and sick, he suffering. He is now surrounded by kitty heaven and its actually better. He doesn't have to suffer anymore. You will miss him but it would be uncharitable to want to still be alive. Don't worry, you'll be sad, but things will get better!
Im awfully sorry! Get better kid.
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I'm sorry :(
I'd hold a memorial for your cat next to lots of pictures and share it with your closest friends. It'd kinda be like a funeral, and just spend some time remembering the correct times, especially remembering that your cat is no longer in pain. Again, I'm really sorry for your loss. At most minuscule your cat had a good life beside a good owner.
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Everyone deals differently but here is how I was competent to move on. Just click on the link, I will caution you that you will cry when you study it but it made me feel so much better after seeing it. I'm very sorry for your loss I know how it feels. Its resembling your best friend has gone away forever but just know that the with the sole purpose thing that does help is time.
Answers: You've not just lost a cat - you've lost a close friend and family associate. You are grieving. You are doing exactly what you need to in establish to walk through this. You are crying. You are reaching out like you did on this website. Keep talking nearly your loss and your feelings. Write about them. Don't depend on your computer to do all of this - you want friends and family with you. Do something to honor the memory of your friend that can express how much he meant to you. Remember that the spirit of your cat be and is much, much stronger than his old body was. His body wore out. His spirit never will. Remember to treat yourself gently. Treat yourself only how you would if you'd had major surgery. Get rest, drink right, etc. You'll make it through this...there is no time-line on grieving. Lastly, be grateful that you have the thoughtful of heart that you have. You were able to love your friend completely deeply.as deep as your love is for him will probably be how deeply you consistency the pain of losing him. You're the kind of person that should be a pet owner - the quality of person who feels and loves deeply. You be lucky to have had him, and you know what? He was lucky to hold had you.
