Kind of upsetting stuff?
So, about a week and a half ago we moved barns. I was taking module with a new trainer and started riding other peoples horses at the new barns. So we moved them.. It be really hard since i've been there 5 years. I primarily grew up there, learned how to ride, and made some unforgettable memories.
But after a week we departed i looked on their website because it is a hard thing to move. (But i do love to new barn). I only wanted to see what was new. We have two pictures up one of each of us and our horses. all together two.. i looked down between where they have been and they were gone.
It was tough for me to handle because i've been with this trainer/owner 5 years and it be hurtful that she could kind of just forget me. Has anyone had anything close to this happen to me?
another reason we moved was because the dressage trainer and some of the boarders in that were very rude to ME. im a minor sooo, it be hard to be there when they critisized me all the time.
I wouldn't rob it too personally. I know it hurt to see your pictures taken down, but I'm sure they just want to preserve their website current. They also might have been worried that you wouldn't want your photos up after you're gone - some people wouldn't, so they be probably just playing it safe.
At times when I be boarding and moved it was hard at times but there is other good things to come from changing environments. You will make current Friends and learn new things. As much as I love the trainer I use for my horses now he is not the first trainer I own used and probably will not be the last. Each trainer instructor will bring something new for you to learn. Look at is as a unmarked adventure and that you will learn something different and new.
"...I mean i love this trainer, but she did tend to tittle-tattle about others etc at the barn..."
If she'll gossip about others, she'll tittle-tattle about you.
The surest way of predicting a person's future behavior is to look at their previous and present behavior.
I wish more trainers understood that it is unprofessional to gossip more or less people in the barn, and in some cases downright dishonourable. I also wish more trainers understood that when they hung out their shingle as a trainer, unless they are world-calibre and and are turning 9 clients away for every one they adopt, or are so well-off that can afford to turn down people they don't like, part of their undertaking is dealing with ALL clients with equal courtesy and fairness. And that they should behave professionally.
I really hate to utter it, but so many people in the training/lesson commerce are not very professional in their conduct. Sad.
she probley is that type of person whether ur paying ill be nice but if ur not i can say wat i wont i ruminate u should be able to go back once surrounded by a while to say high and do a lesson
i think u should in recent times be like oh yeah i love this place but its time to mvoe on like school =] job etc
adn this trianer should porbley think a bit more she may be nice but behind ur back they can be impolite
Answers: It happen to my mom and I every time we moved. I am beginning to think most barns do this, whether they want to keep it current, or carry mad at you for leaving. Don't take it individually. They were only pictures. If the boarders were close-fisted and the trainer gossiped about others, then do you really want it to seem to be like you're still part of the barn community there?
Man I feel for you! The same thing happened to me and my 3 best buds. We rode at this barn for nearly 4 years and were pretty much pushed out because the trainer/coach thought we didn't respect her. Load of Bull!! In reality is was the other riders that talk about her behind her back and never spoke up in the order of anything that was weird or something. I tell it how it is, but I'm NOT impolite about it. Needless to say we left a year ago and never looked put money on. We are much happier at the new barn and enjoy every moment of riding without those other brats. Sorry but I still rant more or less all the backstabbing that happened there. Show clothes and helmet covers person tampered with etc.
well i just moved from my trainer that i have for about 4 years. but i left because she gossiped in the order of me and just sed me to take care of her horses. and after i gone and took one of her favorite horses (i bought the horse) and she only called me twice and never called again i thought that be kinda rude because the horse was hurt and is still healing and i thought she might beckon to see how the horse was doing. but what ever i thought that was rude that that trainer freshly deleted your picture. but i hope you feel better.
Sometimes it's hard to verbs, but we have to. I boarded at one stable through 4 owners. I'd move out, then move wager on then move out and then back... This go on through several decades. The last owners were basically idiots.
But, this steady had been "home" for me since I moved to LA in '73. The ultimate owners were such idiots, when I left, I told them I'd be back when they closed their doors. That be 1982.
In 2000 the ranch was auctioned off and adjectives that was on the premises was auctioned off, right down to the barn that have actually come from the old Will Rogers's Estate. I was in that. It was sad to see part of my youth tender on, to be removed board by board.
As years pass by, the bad things about that barn you be at will fade and you'll remember the good things. I remember Thursday night night rides. Chasing one of the guys around the fruit farm with pails of water. Being dumped in the hose trough by one of my then boy friends. The birth of my FIRST TB foal and so on and so on.
just remeber the righteous stuff and forget the rest. i was once at a barn for 2 years with 2 horses. sold one. i decided to move to a place near an indoor. the day we were to move, i went to gather the horse, and the trailer was on the way. when i got to the barn, i saw my horse lay in field...all the others be standing at the gate to come in for dinner. no one thought it weird and wonderful, that there was a horse laying down at nurture time! turns out he was colicing. trailer arrived, and i had the horse in the stall by in a minute, and he was circling trying t lay down. i did not want o move hiom, obvioulsy. the barn manager informed me that the new horse taking our spot, be on the way and i HAD to vacate the stall. i was just disgusted. give the horse banamine and ace and loaded him up, moved him up the road 10 minutes. I never thought about that place again til just now.
I once left a pasture board facility near no indoor arena because the horse I owned at the time was going to be shown starting in spring, so I needed the use of an indoor arena. I wanted to return surrounded by spring, but the owner, whom I had been close to, informed me that if I disappeared for the winter, I would not be welcomed back in spring. It hurt more than you know. I subsequent learned that because I was leaving, other borders have complained about it, which led to the decision. Anyway, I adapted to the contemporary place, and after that I boarded at many different facilities for various reason. I never looked at a stable in the same road after that. I knew that I may leave any of them if my goal or circumstances made moving make sense. I suspect you'll board at many different places before you're finished.simply cherish the good memories from this one and move on.
Alicia? o_0
Anyway, kinda agree with neo about her wanting to keep the site current and stuff and her thinking you might not want your pic up since you moved out...or maybe she was just too offended to look at your pic everyday?
