How should i confront my friend within this situation?
I have a friend (V) who is the nicest girl i know. We have become quiet close as i am homosexual we talk about anything & we are very comfortable as friends.
She took me to her cousins farm-house closing week and i met her four other cousin sisters who were very hospitable.
It took me by surprise as they mentioned that they were going to butcher a pig the subsequent day which they been doing for a few years,something im not used to.
I did not partcipate but watch these five cousins. They dragged this pig out, tied its feet together and they all held it down and friend (V) slit the pigs throat.
It took them a while to finish it off and after after adjectives the cleaning they racked up alot of meat.
It was some experience to watch that but it makes me curious roughly my friend (V), who i never could have thought doing this.
I feel a bit upset on her when i watched her gun down the pig but then maybe i shouldn't have watch it at all.
Will our friendship be ruined if i tell her that it upset me when she did that? What should i do?
Do you dream up it was worth doing for them after all they did get closely of meat out of that pig?
Just be honest, what doesn't ruin your relationship will only kind it stronger. That is weird though. There is already plenty of dead meat that the grocery store. Anyway, just consent to her know and see if she might have some sort of reasoning or what her explanation is and go from here... good luck!
It's hard for me to say since I do not know this person at adjectives, though I would think that she would understand how certain empire could be made to feel uncomfortable at the sight of an animal man slaughtered, so I personally would not worry about a friendship one ruined just because you let her know this.
My cousin's ex husband raises his own pigs for slaughter. My cousin is a vegetarian, but she used to put away meat, and she said it bothered her mostly because a lot of the meat goes to waste. She said when the divorced within were enough "pieces" in their freezer to variety a pig - and they were old and useless. A lot of people guzzle meat, and some raise their own animals for slaughter, but it seems pointless if the meat is going to fritter away. Ask her what it's for and if it all gets used...I'd speak there's more reason to be mad if it's mortal wasted, though I can understand how seeing your best friend kill an animal would be upsetting.
are you vegetarian? don't you eat pork?
besides, i think it's just a matter of culture, maybe you're uncomfortable about the culture, but at the end of the sunshine, she's a nice girl from within, isn't she?
i'm sure she has her reason for doing it!
what does a pig have to do with rodents? Weird friend
simply tell her it's best to be honest
If you don't agree with what she did it shouldn't effect your friendship, if you guys are that close you will grasp through it.
Well, if you are close you should tolerate her know. Just say that you didn't feel comfortable watching that. Like hunting, some people are raise this way and are desensitized to this type of thing, so she may have not realize this could be upsetting. Only you can decide whether or not you believe slaughtering the pig was the right thing to do. However, you stipulation to remember that all meat comes from killing an animal and just because you don't see it first foot doesn't mean that it is any prettier.
Sheesh, haven't you ever had any porkchops? You didn't have to survey or anything, + if she really is your friend, I don't think she'll get nutty.
Answers: Wow. I would be upset too! But by the sounds of things you guys have a really great friendship so please don't let this ruin it. Talk to her about it. Perhaps whether she'd grown up on a farm she just thinks of it as something that have to be done. Talk to her.
what does that own to do with rats ? pigs are NOT rodents.
This is absolutely Inimitably WRONG! I would yell and scream at her and try to stop them. They should be ashamed.
When I be around 5 years old I watched my dad slaughter a pig for our neighbor who owned a pig farm. Her husband have died the year before. It was pretty horrible, but my dad explained to me that on a farm, the cultivator would go hungry and have no money if he/she did not use the animals for what they be intended for.
For your friend, slaughtering a pig is a part of life, as it is for hundreds of farmers all over. It is not a situation of her being cruel, or a killer. It is a matter of certainty that this is what needs to be done if she lives on a farm.
My best friend also grew up on a tend where they killed chickens, pigs, and ducks. For her, doing this was the most crude thing in the world. Her family's livelyhood depended on it.
Well, I think that is horribly disgusting, but you should probably confront her about it. Tell her what you feel about it, if you are really as close as you make it seem to be you should be able to talk about it and still remain friends.
You should be honest but not harsh about describing her how this made you feel. It shouldn't hurt the friendship if you're that close.
Also, keep within mind that this is something that your friend and her family have be doing for awhile. Although I'm a long-time vegetarian & would have been *very* upset, I realize that most ppl do chomp through meat & that the poor pig had probably lived a relatively decent life back those final moments of pain and fear. Commercially raised "food" animals own it pretty grim their whole lives.
I'm not sure why your question is contained by the Rodent section.
shesounds like a understanding freind... it also sounds like its something shes grown up doing so shes be desensitied to it... shes used to it and your not... just tell her how you fel and she should almost definatly work out
good luck =)
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i draw from y u r upset i would b 2. but sum1 has 2 kill the pig, if you devour meat at all then think of it similar to this every piece of meat sum1 killed nd if shes used 2 it its no big deal 4 her. whether she always went to that farm nd grew up next to that happening its just a fact of time, she got used to it. i would tell her (but thats just me) c w my friends i expect them 2 narrate me wat they think or say sumthing if i upset them. whether u 2 r close hopefull she will get it espicailly if you arnt critizing her just teling her your upset nd explaining that you will probably avoid such events whether it starts to b a big deal try to walk away i designed that can b a tabo subject lots of people have stuff where they never agree. your not foolish right? i would ask her if that was normal 4 her but dont nouns accusing since if that is she could get sulky.
